记忆里的中国婚姻
我年轻的时候,女生对男生说话总是害羞。
反过来的情况也是依旧,这使得我半生受其掣肘。
女孩和男孩之间的婚姻通常由一人去完成,
她/他会严格、细致而优雅的比较男孩、女孩及双方家庭
,并做出最终决定,
如果匹配,他们会展开采取系列的行动,比如,给女孩家庭
发聘书,并给些钱财做为约定
这就是我记忆里中国家庭的真实情景。
幸运的是,虽然我年轻时经历过,但从未受其影响。
Chinese Marriage in Memory
In my youth, girl students are always shy when speaking to boy students
The opposite condition was also true and lasts through my half period of life
Marriages between girls and boys were usually made possible by a person,
Who makes a careful and elegant comparison strictly based upon the boy's
Girl's personal and family's conditions, finalizing the evaluation of match or not,
If matched they will make serial things happen, such as sending off
A letter of appointment and giving money to the girl's family for an engagement
This was the real scenario remembered in my memory of making a Chinese family
Luckily though I experienced it in my youth but never ever be affected by it
我年轻的时候,女生对男生说话总是害羞。
反过来的情况也是依旧,这使得我半生受其掣肘。
女孩和男孩之间的婚姻通常由一人去完成,
她/他会严格、细致而优雅的比较男孩、女孩及双方家庭
,并做出最终决定,
如果匹配,他们会展开采取系列的行动,比如,给女孩家庭
发聘书,并给些钱财做为约定
这就是我记忆里中国家庭的真实情景。
幸运的是,虽然我年轻时经历过,但从未受其影响。
Chinese Marriage in Memory
In my youth, girl students are always shy when speaking to boy students
The opposite condition was also true and lasts through my half period of life
Marriages between girls and boys were usually made possible by a person,
Who makes a careful and elegant comparison strictly based upon the boy's
Girl's personal and family's conditions, finalizing the evaluation of match or not,
If matched they will make serial things happen, such as sending off
A letter of appointment and giving money to the girl's family for an engagement
This was the real scenario remembered in my memory of making a Chinese family
Luckily though I experienced it in my youth but never ever be affected by it
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